Friday, 3 October 2014

36~A Whole New World: Haida Gwaii

My Swiss friend, the lovely Cecile Simoness (we met back in Montreal and hung out in Toronto and Vancouver) planned a road trip to the North of B.C. Our intentions were to primarily have a girly road trip, and secondarily chase love- Cecile had met a man and had fallen in love, quite unexpected for both parties involved in this affair but exciting and not to be ignored. We planned our trip based on where his work was supposed to take him: Prince Rupert, Northern B.C. We were set to have our own adventure, both knowing that waiting around on men, chasing boys was no longer our style but where fairytale love is concerned we were both willing to make some turns in the road.
We had quite the introduction to Prince Rupert; spending one night before heading to Haida Gwaii. (We had read snippets about this island, had spoken to friends and people we had met about his magical island. We were somewhat ignorant of the distance, cost and what it would entail to get us there. A 7 hour ferry ride in which you have to request your car space and wait for approval, paying a surprising sum- what could we do? We were going, after all, Prince Rupert is the port that would take us there, and we knew it would be an adventure.) Cecile and I had booked a room in Pilsbury house because it had looked cute in the pictures and was the same price as a dorm bed in a hostel as we could split the cost (the joy of travelling with another!). This was all put in place a few weeks before and it was not until the night before I was supposed to meet Cecile that I became quite intrigued by the pictures of our B&B while getting the address details. I learnt that it was the oldest building in Prince Rupert. I was perturbed as I looked closely at photographs which conveyed quite the bizarre setting. Fussy lace decor and ornate frames adorning the rooms; teddy bears and dolls covering surfaces; an old tape and record player with a microphone and some unusual looking food atop lace doilies. I mentioned this to Cecile as we nodded with approval at our free upgrade and climbed into what we decided to call Clooney- sophisticated, grey and smooth. 


Pilsbury House was quite something. It was surmounted on a hill overlooking the water and was bright red. It stood out. But it was not just the appearance of both the exterior and interior that made this building unusual, it was the events that took place here. We were greeted by a woman who stood on the steps before we met the proprietor. She was here to get her hair set as this B&B doubles as a hair salon. The hairdressing takes place in the porch and is slightly retro in feel (mainly because of the tools) but is also a bit of a tip. Our multi-tasker host arrives and ushers us in. She is high energy, middle aged, made up and lovely in her welcome. She fusses around and gets waylaid more than once as she attempts to settle us in and prepare to hair dress. As we have to get the ferry in the morning, she will make us a packed lunch as we will miss breakfast. She quite possibly mentions that it is a shame that we 'will miss the show' but I do not question her further on this and Cecile and I take ourselves out of this whirlwind and head into town. We meet a Swiss couple on the way pout. Cecile clocks it immediately and slips into her Swiss German. They will be staying here tonight too. They are softly spoken and look like bikers with some interesting First Nation looking like tattoos. A trio from Barcelona will also stay and Cecile converses in Spanish with them. 

We enjoy a dinner and began to get the lay of the land of Prince Rupert. Although it is all up in the air as to what Cecile’s beau will be and where (dependant on work and a boss who is ever changing his mind)  it is possible we will come back to Prince Rupert (which we both already like) and want to check out the hostel. The hostel is great- much like the one I loved back in Charlottetown, P.E.I. A great kitchen, small dorms that are not bunked and smack bang in the cutsie Cow Bay area. When the girl working there shows us around, she raises her eyebrows when we tell here where we are residing. “I hear she lays on the couch and sings to her guests,” she reveals and laughs when she sees me face as as she drops this snippet. 

I get up early the next morning, in our bizarre little room, clean, comfortable, but in such bad taste (okay, that is judgemental- not my taste) and kinda full of junk. I sneak out for a run and notice that our host is sleeping on the couch. When I return I hear her in the kitchen and ask her for some hot water. Again, a whirlwind of energy, flitting in her dialogue, I learn a lot. She runs this place alone (“Who needs men? Right?” she questions, learning of my position); she has the hair business; has to clean; greet guests; prepare her “famous” breakfast (some have said it the best, most delicious breakfast they have ever had); perform for her guests and live a little. She was out last night and did not get in until midnight, she was then up until 2am as she was preparing the salsa for her very own huevos rancheros. Everything is freshly prepared from scratch and it has to be just so, it is such a shame Cecile and I will miss it. I take my hot water and she continues to bustle. I walk past the frills and fanciful table set for the Spanish and Swiss. I am kind of conflicted as to whether or not to be sorry we are going to miss the show. We gather our stuff and pop down for a coffee to bid farewell to our host. She is ever so lovely. She has made us a packed lunch and practically forces a muffin down Cecile’s neck, bestowing us with kind compliments and engaging us in conversations about travels. She is quick to turn the conversation back to the breakfast shenanigans and explains in detail the courses she serves. Yes, that is right. COURSES. 3 of them. It starts with coffee (in a china cup of course) and a muffin (incredibly sweet Cecile later tells me) and a fruit salad with coconut on top. This aint no fresh fruit but a sickly syrupy sweet Del Monte fruit cup covered in a sea of sweetened desiccated coconut. That explains the picture I saw that I thought looked rather gross. Seconds is a baked tortilla with ham, eggs, cheese, salsa and sour cream. Thirds is a crepe filled with cream and topped with drizzled chocolate. Wowser. Meanwhile, there is a performance of songs. This amazing lady sings Edie Piaf and allegedly brought a German man to tears the other day, from the beauty of her song, you see. She gives us a line. She has a pretty good voice. After the crepe, the one woman comedy show starts and she performs this for Cecile and I. The last jokes are hurried as the guests are stirring upstairs and will gather at 8 am for their very own full length performance and feast. Her comedy act involves becoming a french character with a cartoonish flourish and an exaggerated accent (probably offensive to French people). Madame Fifi has trouble with her husband in the bedroom and other life dilemmas and these are the basis of these skits…

As Cecile and I leave, the guests are gathering and Cecile says that the Swiss man gives her a desperate look, having given them a vague heads up in German, that says, “What is this? I just want to eat my breakfast in peace.” both of us find ourselves smiling throughout the following days when we think back to that morning. The bananas in the pack up are a reminder days later and Del Monte fruit cups remain with us until finally on a hike, Cecile eats it and it feels like the end of the Pilsbury experience. (When we do eventually make it back to Prince Rupert, the hostel is potentially full for a night and Cecile and her boyfriend Tristan will have to look elsewhere. I suggest Pilsbury. She looks at me. She does not think she can do it. Nope. Definitely not, she asserts.)






Haida Gwaii is a different planet and seems to be in a different timezone. As we embark on our 7 hours on the ocean, the journey is so incredibly peaceful, pleasant and sort of mysterious. The mists, the lands, the open ocean. We are told that there are whales to the left and later that they are ahead. We have a sighting. We meet a First Nation man who is keen (and completely upfront about it) for us to visit him in Old Masset. We can attend a pot lotc, stay with him, eat salmon and he will show us around. Because you are pretty girls. Hmmmmm… We exchange numbers and say that if our trip takes us to that part of the island we will find him.

We find our digs, and realise later how much we had really landed on our feet. 2 nights here and it was lovely. We had a lovely vantage point and explored the surrounding area. A hike on the spirit trail nearby leaves us both wanting a bit more and we are tempted by a sign that looks like it has been painted by a child. It says ‘Lookouts’, has a red X for marks the spot and a dotted line leading into the forest. There is no scale, no nothing. We both feel that walking on a path for 25 minutes, no matter how beautiful and unusual the forest around is, does not constitute as a hike. So we venture forth. Our complaints come to bite us on our ass. It is epic, climbing, scouting for the faded bits of intermittently placed pink tapes and no clear indication as to how far we have gone. We make it (the lookouts are nice but I think we expected something more  and decide to go a different way back. A shortcut which will take us back to the road, and if we remember rightly, to the cafe where we can get coffee and food!


The spirit stage where local musicians play from 7-9pm on Friday evenings and the pub where live music has Cecile and I hit the dance floor, hoe down style, to the very first song. There is a limousine taxi that takes people home to avoid drink driving on the island. This place is full of quirky one offs and unexpected treasures and troves. We meet a guy that is motorcycling across South and North America. He is currently en route to Alaska. He comes to dinner with us and we treat him; he would normally just scoff a loaf of bread or something cheap just to keep himself fuelled up! He has beautiful eyes and great stories. He is a total free spirit.








We see the same people around and hit the Saturday market. Lovely local produce keeps us going  for a few days and we enjoy the atmosphere in the unexpected sunshine- this is an ancient rainforest after all and we were prepared for drizzles, rainforest weather. Mama Liz had packed me up with s second pair of trainers and a fleece- both never to leave my backpack. She also insisted I take snacks. The enormous amount of nuts in a ziplock did us proud. Cecile and I both enjoy the ceremonious snacking half way through a hike- hungry or not!
Harvey had been concerned that I would not find foods that I like to snaffle and there were limited places but some wonderful one off spots to eat. There are some awesome little coffee spots on Haida Gwaii: Queen Bee’s, Jag and the Beanstalk and Moon over Naikoon (out in the middle of nowhere, the fire men were there when we arrived post hike, delivering their water). All alternative and healthy foods with heart. Perfect. The museum hosts an event that we enjoy, noting that there are many young people on this island and what a contribution they seem to make to the Haida community. They are running events on the day and are dotted about elsewhere on our travels. There is only one main road that goes to the Northern tip and back down to Charlottetown.The same people crop up and life feels held in time. It is almost as if it is on Thailand time and the dotted islands around are like a British Columbian version of Asia as I know it. The only time we are not in step with this mode of existence is when we have car problems and stay in an airbnb (the only one on the island and there is a bad vibe, accompanied by a smelly, very large and badly behaved dog). We end up in a motel one night and then the lovely hostel before we set off to Prince Rupert for some days to meet up with Tristan who had booked flight- the work did not pan out and after being messed about by his boss, he was coming for a holiday and heading our way. Cecile was thrilled and we liked our spot in Prince Rupert. 


The Skidegate Museum enjoyed beautiful weather for the community events they held:










Old Masset, where our friend from the ferry resides, had the feel of a ghost town. Derelict houses, deserted yards emanating something on the edge of eerie. We decided to not pursue this contact and enjoyed more time in Charlottetown where we chatted with local fisherman. This man was so lovely, talking of some time he had spent in Newfoundland and the kindness of people there. 





We had attempted to do the ‘Sleeping Beauty’ hike, which now from this perspective made complete sense. There she is in profile but we seemed to be off roading it, total rally style and although Clooney was up to the challenge, lack of clear signage made it an impossibility- it seems you really must be in the know here. 




We accumulated a sort of whiney American woman in the hostel on our last days and gave her a lift to the ferry. We were unsure if we had been awarded a spot- we were on the reserve list and waited with baited breath. Tristan would be arriving and we were wondering what to do. Should I stay behind and Cecile go as a foot passenger? Should we both wait? All was well and we made our way on- I had to park Clooney in tight little spot. The ferry was very full! I was directed in and our new friend was very impressed and bought me a coffee. To be fair, the guy's directions were incredible- I would never have managed this myself!

We were heading back to Prince Rupert and tomorrow Cecile would be reunited with Tristan. Leaving behind Haida Gwaii felt a little strange. We probably could have done with a little more time there but we also had a lot of experiences, we both reflected. It certainly was a whole new world for us. We felt in the moss covered forests that we were in a setting from ‘The Never Ending Story’. It was enchanting, all encompassing, perhaps slightly eerie. The komorebi, the emerald greens and the soft cushioning beneath our feet was all new; never before had we seen or felt a world of these colours, trees and land. 




Cecile noted the lack of order in comparison to the Swiss forest where everything is maintained and neat. Here, the trees fall and are left. They feed the land, remaining untouched in a circle of forestry life and magic. We were alone on all our walks and the forests were ancient, very much alive and with powerful presence. They seemed to whisper. So although it was just Cecile and I, alone in this ancient realms, I was glad to not traverse these paths alone. These realms are dwarfing and fairytale-esque, and we all know most of those tales have brushes of sinister moments. Exploring Haida Gwaii, sharing these magical ancient lands and listening to the whispers of the forests was a whole new world for the both of us and a life long friendship in the making. 

35~Letting Go

'Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.'
~Mark Twain

These beautiful words have been resonating in my mind and body for some time as I processed their meaning. I have become aware that as I really began to let go experience forgiveness I am so much freer. Any grievances, slights, sadness and resentments, small or large have been easier to diminish. I am not one to harbour negative feelings but I seldom forget a bruise to the soul- who does? Time and life tends to put a balm on it and then it appears to have dissipated, healed. Lurking deep within, these feelings sometimes resurface, can intermittently haunt and when you are truly ready, sometimes there are ways in which release ourselves from these pains.

Letting go was a thread, a theme that connected the girls at the Lake. For all of us, in varying degrees, there was something in our life that needed a symbolic exit to propel us forward or put to rest in peace. As we had been doing a yin practice, lakeside in the early morn, I decided to lead a last practise themed ‘letting go’. Mama W and Liz had also been part of this yoga routine and we were all emotionally open and charged during these sessions. The beauty of our surroundings, the wonder of being here together and the joy of such a deep practice resonating in our bodies was overwhelming -each shavasana and closing words had brought us all to tears more than once. Reese had snuck her way on to the jetty one morning and onto my lap as we ‘Namaste-d’, all teary, she found the right words: “Well, this is a bit awkward, isn’t it?” When we explained the meaning of ‘namaste’, she said, “How can one word mean so much?” Very insightful. 

Kate and I recognised the need to find a seal of closure on the friendships of the past and decided to write and burn some words to act as a symbolic and physical ending. We invited Liz and Mama W to join us in this good witchery. To all the good witches, particularly Steph and Elodie, thank you for your stories regarding this absolving technique. I remember Elodie describing to me how using this to let go of a stagnate feelings in a humble and thoughtful, processed way was extremely powerful but similarly a more recent anger or slight could be dealt with too. Take a paper, anything to write with, it does not need to be beautiful. Write the worst things in the world about that person or thing. Scribble, swear. Ugly words and then set it alight and poof!” Elodie said, leaning forward her eyes widening. “The bad is not in the universe and you will feel free of your anger.” She said she did this when working the snow season in the French mountains. As soon as she burnt her violent words full of profanities and insults, angry scribbles and etchings, she grabbed her snowboard and sauntered out, free as a bird, released from the chains of fury. I have yet to need this version of a burn and release but a more considered approach in the form of a letter, with kindness and forgiving would suit my personal trauma. So whatever us gals needed to rid, a little night of good witchery would set free in a symbolic burning of our words the pains or whatever emotions it was we were harbouring. It was great being girls together; the time in our lives when our mothers are our mamas but where are relationships have evolved to also embody friendships.

We conducted our witchcraft the following week. The girls had a meal out at a restaurant on Crescent Beach, in White Rock, called ‘The Cabin’. Perfect. After a dinner together which involved stories of the the time we left Canada, details and a retelling unmet heard by Kate and Liz, we headed down to the beach. Liz was armed with a lighter (ever organised: remember her ability to conjure up a plate of crudites as if from nowhere- a perfect witch skill if I ever knew one) and we all had our papers and written words. We sat on a log and shared in turn and then ceremoniously lit and let go our burdens. We walked back, cackling at Kate who had her briefcase in tow- she had headed to the restaurant straight from work. That teamed with her heels and her slightly inebriated stomp she had on, made her look like a modern day witch with some serious business to attend. Our sorcery had attracted a random local who had wanted to join us for a drink. He arrived wobbling on his bike and was apparently a bit of a local terror (he admitted himself, telling us that they do not normally let him in here but if we informed the waitress that he was invited to come and sit with us, he would buy us a drink). He had got Kate to hold his dog through the window of the restaurant while he attempted to negotiate his was way in. We wondered if this might also be a potential suitor for myself- he evidently believed so with a few comments he made. Declining his offer with kindness (and a few giggles), we explained that it was a girly night. He took Barley, the dog, from a bemused Kate and rode off into the night. We hoped not to meet him on our return journey- we felt pure from our cathartic witchery. In order to deflect him, Kate felt she could step up by giving him a whack him with her briefcase or a kick with her heels- may as well make use of these accessories. 


Meanwhile the boys had been on a different plane entirely. Harvey and Richard had been bonding over nasty poutine, Canadian football and a busty cheerleader at the game. They came back, Richard donning a baseball cap, both thrilled with themselves and their evening. Our nights could not have been more different and the exilirations that consumed both parties polar opposite in nature. The boys had a much more physical evening with the football game, junk food and their excited observation of Melissa and her impressive assets- we were subjected to the photographs- ours more on the spiritual and emotional plane. The men were keen to regale their tales but seemed quickly switched off when we wanted to share our story or our photos of a flickering flame in the moonlight (not a patch on Melissa, I guess).

So, us daughters and mothers, connected so perfectly, let go and shared this process. It seemed to make it all the more powerful. Here is a poem that I found and shared during our yoga session, lakeside:


I'm letting you go

I'm letting you go
Your heart is not mine to hold
I'm setting you free
Your setting me free
You know we're not meant to be


And you saved me 

And you say I need better
And you looked into my soul
You never understood me
And I gave you everything
And it left me empty
Now I'm climbing out of the hole
Now I'm ready


I'm picking myself back up today 

I'm gonna carry on this way
The past is behind me to stay
I've said everything I have to say
Better things are on the way
And now


I'm letting you go

I'm letting you go
Your heart is not mine to hold
I'm setting you free
You know we're not meant to be.

Wednesday, 1 October 2014

34~Lakeside for a Summer Holiday

We are all going on a Summer Holiday! No more worries for a week or two!
Road tripping with a bestie from childhood, with the kids in tow- the open road, mountainous surrounds and snacks galore = FUN! 


The adults headed out together (that is Mama Wolff, Richard, Liz and Harvey), Keith was working and would later join us by flying in from Calgary. The cars were packed to the brim and we were set after grabbing large coffees and the breakfast sandwiches and doughnut bites tom Tim Horton’s- a Donegani/Burritt heading to the Lake family ritual. The summer holiday vibes were in full flow as we left the city behind us, heading out onto the open road. Kate and I remembered being in the back of ‘The Beast’, the huge station wagon that transported us to all sorts of places as kids. Now we were in the front of a pretty awesome vehicle with control of the tunes, snack rationing and the speed. Today some cars have DVD players too (new to me, I thought this was limited to limousines), so we waited till we made the half way mark, whacked on ‘The Lion King’, sang along (with more enthusiasm than the children) and waited till the children to drift off so we could engage in serious gossip. Just like with Lydia, we had a list of conversations to come back to as we had flitted from one topic to another, never quite reaching a satisfactory conclusion or getting as in depth as we wanted.

We arrived first and Reese and Jack were thrilled to see Grandma Di and Grandpa Eric. Harvey, Richard, Liz and Mama Wolff were soon to follow; Liz and Judy bright eyed, with a little raucous laughter having enjoyed a bottle of wine in the back seat. These gals can put away the wine and maintain a seemingly even keel. Pretty impressive. They say it is years of practice. As far back as I can remember, yes, they have been continually practicing and that is a few fair years.

How lovely to have a week at Lake Skaha in the Okanagan. Keith’s family cabin has been moved from the lakeside spot but remains on the family land. Eric and Diane sold their homes in Vancouver to permanently move to the Lake and built a house for round the year living. As their placard in the kitchen/diner says: ‘Life is better at the Lake.’  Very sensible to vacate the city and move to this little spot of Canadian heaven. The weather forecast was hot, hot, hot for the week. So much so that the old cabin was not a viable option for us to stay in as it was literally a sauna (I considered some hot yoga but decided the jetty a hot enough and more beautiful place to practice) so Liz and Harvey, Richard and Mama W, and I (in the ‘bonus room’- as a single there is generally the chance you are on the sofa bed or in with the kids- I had a lovely window looking out onto the hills and a big TV with plenty of Disney VHS) moved into the big house with Eric and Di. Kate, Keith and the children stayed in the little sister house next door that had heaps of cabin charm.

Experiencing the beauty of the Okanagan and the peace of the lake was just lovely. It was perfect for Mama W and Richard to  have a ‘summer holiday’ in the midst of their city break too. Lakeside activities are very cool: waterskiing (Keith’s sport of choice, I was put off when Harvey pulled his back out on his first and only ski of the week), boat trips, plunging to escape the heat, swims, jetty yoga, reading, chatting, rock painting with nail varnishes (Kate, Reese and I had hours of enjoyment), checking out clouds, feet trailing in the cool water and simply gazing into the horizon.  














Post hours of scything the water weeds and then a waterski, poor Harvey pulled his back and proceeded to medicate himself. Here he is using the yoga mats, tequila and a Corona here to help heal his back (mid morning):- 






Kate and I cooked a dinner at the Cabin for the lakeside lot. As we did this, we put on tracks from our childhood: Rick Astley and Dirty Dancing. We knew all the words and had a riot, cooking up a feast of chorizo and prawn linguine with a feta and watermelon salad. We loved hosting and could not help but congratulate ourselves on our skills and delicious food- acknowledging that it was slightly unbecoming to do so. Reese and I had spent a sneaky hour baking Kate’s favourite: lemon drizzle cake. It was her and Keith’s anniversary so we figured ladies choice (lucky, as Keith had overindulged in sun and a few too many rum and cokes- he had to sneak off) and Reese was chuffed to bits to bestow the gift to her mama. 
Reese and I were becoming fast friends. When Jack corrected me in how to say ‘water’, “Not wa-t-er, wa-d-er!” Reese conspiratorially said to him, with one eye on me, “Jack, she has an accent, she can’t help it.” She was now in with the British lingo and was rocking out words like ‘chuffed’, chips were now always ‘crisps’ and ‘brilliant’ had replaced ‘awesome'. Liz too declared she would never call crisps chips again, indeed crisps seemed much more apt for crunchy potato snack! Why had she not termed them so sooner? Reese and I made place settings for our last dinner together, coloured, baked banana bread, yoga-d together and had a pretty cool game of pirates with Jack too. 
 I was oblivious as I stood on my head to the photography and Reese's complementary act:-



Kate and I managed to have time too. We both had a conversation that we wanted to complete. A parallel from across the pond, us both having experienced a fall out with a close friend. Years ago in both our worlds but interestingly we both had taken a long while to heal and the wounds recently closed, the scars clearly there. As we went for a grocery run, Kate divulged her story. Two days on, we did a mourning walk up a mountain and I reciprocated. The cathartic release, perfectly timed as we trudged down the steep incline, brought tears to both friends and we realised how precious this opportunity was in sharing. We were both finding absolution and a sense of closure. 



Here we are with our mamas:

We girls headed out to town to get the next lot of groceries- there were a lot of mouths to feed and we
seemed to do a lot of eating. This trip involved an initial pit stop at two wineries. An Okanagan must, what can we say? A shopping session at Canada’s version of TKMaxx. I looked on as the ladies bought clothes and consoled myself by buying some lavender oil and coconut body scrub as toiletries surely were essential. We then went for lunch which made us realise that this was the very first time we had ever been just the four of us, Kate and I grown up girls now, lunching and chatting over our histories, presents and futures. Very decadent and a ridiculous amount to catch up on- like 25 years! Eventually we made it to the supermarket and it was a strategic dash around the aisles in order to make it back to rescue the men or the kids, whichever were feeling the strain more and of course to make the most of the late afternoon sun at our lakeside spot (admittedly, this was our first and foremost thought).

The sunny days here were reminiscent of our childhoods at ‘The Cabin’. Liz and Harvey’s over the border beautiful cliffside spot where we would spend weekends adventuring, reading, being together, eating candy and pancake breakfasts. Here we were, all together again and I remember the ever arching skies from our cabin vantage point and I marvelled at the stunning skies lakeside too. The first night I trailed my feet off the jetty, mesmerised and unable to move to get a camera. Amber, peach, apricots, threads of saffrons and rose stretched, slowly ribboned and danced as the sun disappeared behind the hill. The uplight, a gorgeous staging effect prevented true darkness and postponed nightfall. Reflections in the water were equally captivating and the warmth of the sun kissed air kept me there for some time. 




Each night was a different performance, each incomparable and treasured as was the slow rise of the sun and early light that permeates this vast expanse of undulating mountainous ranges. Morning runs were perfect for smelling the land, catching the sprinklers that watered the crops and seeing the moon in the early morning blue. One night as the sun was setting, I kept thinking about night swimming. The water lay darkly translucent in the wavering trees that fringed the lake, the amber-hued belt of mountains reflected in the gentle ripples upon the surface, twinkling 

Diane encouraged me just to
do it, so as the others watched on, enjoying the sun set, I hopped in for some lengths. Buddy, the dog, they felt was surely in love with me. Running up and down the jetty as I swam, clearly captivated and protective. Well, he has not been my worse offer as of yet. He has all his teeth and is apparently incredibly loyal. I guess a summer holiday often features a budding romance. If my feelings were not reciprocated, at least I had an admirer and it did cause quite the stir at our camp! Here he is, heading my way:

Lots more happened during this week: the adults went for a posh lunch at a winery; Kate managed to find time to complete a book; the kids suffered a few melt downs; Harvey hobbled around with a bad back; Keith got in a few early morning water skis; we watched the World Cup Final; the adults got pretty merry on Friday night; Diane made some top notch meals; we breakfasted together; we chatted and most of all we laughed. 

I headed home in the adult car- Kate, Keith and the kids would continue their stay for the long weekend. Mama Wolff got sick on the windy ride home and stopping for a box of Okanagan peaches and a crate of wine was a must. A perfect ending to our summer holiday: a victim of car sickness, a box of local peaches and a pit stop at a burger joint!
What we learnt form our group vacation was that we would do it again in a heartbeat, so next year or the year after we are down for a reunion. We have had a good few years practice at this holidaying together back in the 1980’s and some 20 years later we still have the skills.